5 Signs They’re Cheating:
Cheating sucks, now if you have been cheated on before you know full well that it hurts like a bitch and angers you incredibly. Now I will admit it, yeah i’ve been cheated on. It angered me more than anything, but when you get cheated on a range of emotions go through you all at once. But the problem is you never usually see it coming, like a flash of a cannon you have either caught them, they came clean or you some how found out. Then its all downhill for a while. The problem is trust, we put a lot of trust and it never even crosses our minds that we are going to be cheated on!
So let me help you find out if they are cheating on you, with these five signs.
You start to get this feeling, like your other half is cheating. You don’t know what it is, but you feel like they are keeping a secret and you don’t know what… This is the first initial sign you will feel, its that moment where your mind will stand to wonder and think the worst.
You will start to notice that they are not telling your as much as they used to, or they only tell you like half stories, and leave out key people. This is a big one, if you start to notice things like ‘Hey what did you get up to on the weekend, or how was the party’ and all they reply with is ‘Yeah it was fine’ Then you have to ask yourself, is there something going on? In addition to this they start telling you less secrets you are no longer her go to person.
Sex life disappears:
You will notice the sex life starts to change, either they don’t want to do it as often or they don’t want to do it at all. Which means, they have found it better somewhere else or they are already getting their daily dose of loving from someone else…
The Way They Acts:
The body language starts to change, she seems more uptight, or she starts to seem nervous around you. That’s when you know that there is a big secret behind those eyes. I noticed when I got cheated the stories she told always seem favourable to her ‘new friend’ some people say they start to see a whole difference though, personality and physically, like they buy new clothes, start making a new effort, act different around you. These are all tells before they start to close you off before moving over to someone new.
In the day and age we live in, we use our phones all the time, its a channel of communication, you will notice that they start hiding their phone away, they start texting in secret or not leaving it out. I noticed when I got cheated on that she would even lean away from me to text, I didn’t even think anything of it. But that is a huge tell that they are cheating.
If you know any other cheating tells, comment below or tweet me @mrjamesvincent