First Date Mistakes:
Now when guys go on dates sometimes they make dreadful mistakes that can end the relationship before it has even begun. I have done a post like this before, which was ‘First Date Rules’ which was incredibly popular. So let me give you guys some guidance into the mistakes your most likely going to make and how to make sure you don’t make them!
Don’t be handsy:
Lads, come on. It’s the first date. I shouldn’t have to tell you to leave your hands in your pocket, but you do need to restrict where your hands are going. Now light touching on the hand is not what I’m talking about, I’m just making sure your hands don’t start wandering to other places..
Don’t be cheap:
Guys this is your first date, first impression. That means she will forever remember your first date! So when it comes to the end of the date… PAY. Okay, it’s not that hard, take the wallet out your pocket and pay the waiter, its your first date. Make sure she doesn’t leave the date with the wrong impression of you.
The two-way conversation:
Now, we all like talking about ourselves, the achievements we have done, the places we have been and what we like doing, but you have to make sure its a two way conversation. Make sure there is space for her to jump in as well and talk about her achievements. Don’t be a gloater.
Limit the drink:
This is one that a lot of guys need to adapt. Make sure that you limit the drink of the first date, you don’t want to come across as a piss head. Be a mature gentleman. – This is one of the biggest first date mistakes guys make, they get comfortable and start consuming more and more.
Don’t be an open book:
As this is the first date, you do NOT need to tell her your darkest secrets or most embarrassing moments, lets keep a little bit of mystery here!
No need to flash the cash:
As I said, pay for the end meal, but you don’t need to tip the waiter 50pounds or talk about how much money you make or what car you drive. She has gone on a date with you, not what’s in your bank or what you drive, remember that!
If you know any other first date mistakes guys make, comment below! Or tweet me @mrjamesvincent,
Have a great evening,