I got a lot of requests after my recent ‘gentleman’ posts to do some more, so today I’m writing a post on 5 ways to show your women that chivalry isn’t dead…
1. Umbrellas, Doors, Jackets and Seats:
The littlest things go a long way! Small acts of chivalry stand out the most, it’s what separates you from the average Jo, to the gentleman she’s always wanted! From holding doors open, to sharing your umbrella in the rain to giving your jacket when she’s cold. She will definitely notice these things! They aren’t hard to do and they should always be done!
‘Manners maketh man’- William Horman
2. Table manners and Dinner Etiquette
Simple dinner etiquette goes a long way to prove chivalry. For example, someone’s clearing the table, but she hasn’t finished Tell them to stop, if your food arrives before hers don’t pick up your knife and fork and start gobbling it down! WAIT. When her food arrives then you can eat. Make sure you stand out to the couples around you as the gentleman every woman wants. The person she feels confident to take out and show off.
3. Move away from the phone:
In our current generation out phone is stuck to us, it’s used 24/7. However, if you can try turn it off every once in a while. Give her your undivided attention, if you can’t turn it off then at least put it on silent and leave it in your pocket.
4. Remembering something important:
Remembering things that she thought you didn’t remember can give them the push they need sometimes! My memory isn’t the greatest I can admit that, so this is even something I need to improve on! Now whatever the occasion for example she’s got a presentation, first job interview she’s feeling really nervous about something a simple text can give them that extra boost they need! ( Gents you have a phone that remembers things for you when you can’t, use this to your advantage)
5. Sending flowers:
When sending flowers don’t just send them on occasions that she’s going to predict like valentines day, birthdays. Send them unexpectedly. Giving a women flowers when she least expected it will make her day! Its something you can’t put a price on and it will never fail to impress.
TIP: If you are buying flowers for her and you have no idea which ones to get start hinting, you’re walking past a flower stand and you go ‘aren’t those lovely’ she will then most likely admit what she likes and doesn’t like ‘LISTENING IS KEY’
I hope you enjoyed this post and you try some of these out! Make your woman happy!