The Importance of Being Confident:
Now, this is a post i’ve been wanting to for a while. Why it’s so important to be confident. At the end of the day, confidence is everything. Being confident can be the difference between getting the girl and not. Landing the job or not. Landing the deal or not.
I know what you’re thinking, but it’s hard? You get nervous or you want someone else to be the confident one. Yeah I can understand that, but by doing that you don’t get remembered. Have you ever seen it that those annoying, douchey guys land those incredibly good looking girls and you’re sitting there thinking how? It was confidence, confidence played a huge role in getting her. Having the balls to go, you know what, fuck it.
If you go into a job interview, acting the mouse, being quiet and timid a senior employee is going to look at you and think “This person is not right for the role” Even if you could do the job, it was your actions that spoke louder than your words.
This can be hard, but people throughout history have started the career, landed deals, got the girl, went down in history because of confidence. It’s time to be heard people, express your opinion and make a stand.
Be the inner person that you want to be, don’t stay quiet when you don’t need to be. You want to be remembered to do it! Don’t think about it, don’t go into the shower and think ‘I should of said that, I wish I had done that.’ BE BOLD.
The one big benefit to being confident is that you become remembered, you immediately take on the role of being a leader. And you never know, someone may want you to take that role. If you want to know how to be confident or you have any questions, tweet me @mrjamesvincent or comment below.
Have a great afternoon,